兩天沒上OURHOME了

罪過`罪過```

 

挥毫？气质

在李安导演的要求下,力宏右手挥毫苦练毛笔字.力宏擅长的是左手写字,写英文自然是行云流水,不过写汉字就有画的嫌疑了,所以他写的汉字个个圆滚滚的超可爱,但从他写的每一个字里我们都看到了:认真.右手挥毫在电影《色戒》中并不会出现,导演是为了培养他文人沉静的气质.其实力宏身上已存在这样的气质,要不然李安也不会选他了.

书香门第出身的力宏身上的文人气质是无法掩盖的,如果说他优质这或许就是根基了.力宏的配合度永远是超高的,不管自己在什么样的位置上,他始终谦卑,正是这样的人才多一些进步的机会吧,他的优质,其实就是他的气质,那种涵养也许并不突出,但必定最隽永长久,打动人心.

握手？尊重

在台北力宏因为左手受伤,签名会改成握手会,右手上阵.这天左手缠着绷带的他,把自己那只弹琴的右手放大在歌迷的面前,歌迷们觉得那只手上布满了幸福的甜蜜,而被那保护起来包裹得像包子一样的手也分外可爱.他把自己那刻意时会觉得别扭不经意中又很受用的右手一直伸长,向他的歌迷们传递安心.有趣的是上台握手的歌迷有好多手上也缠着绷带"真巧,你的左手也受伤拉?要不要紧,会不会痛?"其实那天是愚人节,歌迷故意捉弄他,让他开心呢.

他对别人的尊重是赢得别人尊重的最重要原因,他是多么谦虚而平实,所以那些受他耍大牌的人士应该好好调查一下,到底谁在耍,可不干也不该冤枉了这么个人儿.

握话筒？自由

力宏歌唱会用右手握话筒,当然有时候也左手上阵.

爱怎么样就怎么样,这是他的自由.力宏是张乖乖牌,没办法谁让他那么尊重别人?加除音乐以外基本上很"白目"?但他的心很向往一种境界,是每个人都可以自由游弋的,他很看重自己手上的那只麦,这是特与世界沟通的管道,这麦上寄托着他的此岸何彼岸,而他深知自由如何才能降临,这个乖的人有意可不安分甚至狂野的心,只是他想的单纯而清楚.所以有没有觉得他有一种单纯的置身娱乐圈外的感觉?你不用说他是天王巨星,但谁也无法否认他是一个音乐人,真正的音乐人.

弹乐器？性感

力宏用右手拉小提琴,用右手拉二胡,当然他用双手弹钢琴,他会的单只手的乐器都是用右手的,不会像传统中国家长一样硬要把左撇子的孩子打成右撇子的王爸爸王妈妈还是让力宏用右手拉琴了,因为那也是他自然而然的意愿.不知道力宏用左手拉琴会不会觉得别扭?因为他从来也没有用过,但是用右手演奏的力宏,却让人觉得无比之性感,他深沉的表情,有点扭曲的脸,都那么有味道,一时间会觉得他好像不再是一个凡人了.其实他很平凡,因为跟别的男生一样,他也很喜欢耍性感,不过他不张扬,你看出来就看出来,看不出来也没关系.他经常在演唱会上跳性感舞蹈、每每在写真集里展露胸肌,因为他真的很性感.

拿奖杯？ 爱现

力宏得奖的时候都是用右手拿奖杯的,难道是因为歌迷每次都在右手边?金曲奖沉甸甸的最年轻的演唱人和最年轻的制作人用右手拿,第一个内地奖项也用右手拿下.没有人真正清楚力宏在这11年中收获了什么,因为他只献宝他想要的,所以你如果夸他的专辑好听,说他chinked-out造成了很好的影响,他都会鲜有的打断你后面的话,第一时间给你送上一句:"谢谢"他接受批评,但更需要别人的肯定.

干杯？可爱

喝水喝酒力宏都用右手,是出于习惯或是对别人的尊重吧.

喝水就算了,力宏喝酒是特别可爱端着杯子笑嘻嘻好像还有点紧张,就算喝酒这么爷们的时候他也这么可爱,因为他骨子里就是这么可爱.老是喜欢舔嘴唇、吐舌头,最夸张的是某次被拍到在便利店门口,金鸡独立身体前倾摇摇欲坠,去个便利店至于搞得这么开心吗?别看他看起来索然,生活像机器人,但本质上他是这么Honey,给梁静茹写《丝路》之后还送人家一只"丝鹿",那鹿的样子还真傻傻的,不过很可爱.

把妹？柔情

发现了没?和美眉在一起的时候,不管是握手揽腰它可全部都是用右手的欧.获取只是一个巧合也说不定,不过力宏可是从骨子里尊重女性.从小由温和多才的妈妈,后来有慈爱可亲的外婆,身边有厉害的经纪人,圈内有那么多谈得来的好朋友.力宏深深知道,女性对于这个世界所起的重要作用.平和优质的力宏,绝对是绅士第一人,他与女生似乎更加能够开心扉,女性的温柔善良让他感觉温暖.

交流？尊重

与别人交往,力宏多半用右手,这也许是他的下意识,不过从小在西方长大的力宏似乎比较认定右手的圣洁程度.力宏看似糊涂,大事可精明得很,他做人的特点就是从不失小节.尊重建立在互相的基础上,建立在小事上,所以基本上你要找王力宏的什么毛病是不可能的,他宁愿天下人负他,也不肯负天下人,可这样的人,谁肯负他?

吃？幸福

力宏吃饭其实是左右开弓.那样吃的人才吃得香,看的人才觉得幸福.不过力宏以吃起来就很"忘情".唯一的缺点就是会把脸拉得稍微有点长.当然,幸福时不用看卖相的,只要感觉对了就可以肆意感染,幸福时天下最美的滋味,当然要放肆品尝,轻装上阵,要不然岂不是辜负了美事?

跟爺爺弟弟大吵一架
我知道可能我有過分的地方
但絕對不全是我的錯
我會這樣,到底是爲了誰
每個人都清楚!

可```一次次都是...
真的是自找的
我太多餘,太...

曾經也對自己說過
不要再管了
讓他自身自滅``
讓自己快樂些
是,當初也放開了些
可某些事是放不下的,也不能放下
我的真的害怕```

一次次的衝突過后
又是我一次次放下一切去補救我們之間的傷口

對他,我付出的甚至比爸爸媽媽還要多
他是我的生命

開學以來,因爲發生過一些事
讓我已經有些改變了
本來老愛呆在家的我,變"野"了
不愛回家,天天都想出去```
那時就有搬出去住的想法
現在...到底要不要...
我真的想出去!

爲什麽又出現...
雖然只是一條短信
但已經讓我感覺無比溫暖，開心了

 

每天早上上學都會不自在
感覺他會看到我
在那個時段，總是害怕那路公車開過···
他能看到我，我却看不到他……
有時會刻意回避那時上學，寧願遲些，匆忙些...（其實心裏幷不希望，我也不曉得自己怎麽想的）

明天去拿化驗單，應該不會有事的
老天不會對我那麽殘忍的...一定不會！
打算半年後再去檢查，這樣應該就沒問題了吧，就算現在有所謂的潜伏期，那時也一定能確定了
我一定不會有事的！

 

好了，一切都等明天再說……

Close Friends Talk about Leehom – As a reporter I’ve interviewed Leehom many times, and he has always been extremely friendly. He is easily approachable and smiles and waves at you from afar even if he isn’t familiar with you. As a result almost everyone in the industry likes his personality and easy-going ways. In fact he’s friends with almost everyone he meets. However, to become more than just a regular friend, to become a true friend that he trusts is hard. Leehom has admitted that he doesn’t spill his feelings every easily, and he doesn’t like to “accept” close friends unless he absolutely trusts someone. Sometimes he feels his "emotional barrier" is somewhat of an obstacle for him.

Leehom says "I'm sometimes a bit too honest in a dumb way and I'm clumsy with my word choice, so in a way music is my language because it allows me to express myself the best." Surprisingly Leehom isn't a smooth talker despite his dashing charm, "I'm still like a little kid and I get nervous and sometimes I say the truth too much. I need to take some lessons on how to talk to girls." Leehom laughed, "Girls say they want truthful guys, but I think I shouldn't be too open with my feelings." Actually Leehom isnt' a good sweet-talker. When his girlfriend asked him to choose between her and music Leehom could not lie to her and said, " I love you and music both the same." Sadly that didnt' work out too well for him. But apparently he does love her as he has continued to write songs for her.

I was curious what his closest friends that know his inner thoughts thought him, so let’s peel Leehom’s layers of secrecy :

David Tao: Leehom is very deep when it comes to his music. He never stops talking about it when he gets started and it never gets boring, as a musician myself it’s incredible how much he inspires me. I remember the collaboration we did on the lyrics and composing of “Hand in Hand” that was one of my favorite projects. We did the composing, producing, arranging, and writing the lyrics all in one day. Neither of us slept and that's what I like abuot him, we are both serious workers. He is so serious and so gentle with his music. He always has a smile on his face. What’s funny is that he likes to tell jokes, though they are funny only because they are a bit lame, don't say I said that , haha.

Wilber Pan: He’s the man. It’s still amazes me how someone so talented in so many things can still be so normal and fun to joke around with. You would think the amount of work he puts into his music he would be an anal perfectionist, but in fact he’s really easy-going in real life. But dude his apartment is empty, when we go there, there aren’t even chairs for us to sit on, only Leehom’s bed and some instruments and just music stuff. Haha.

Blackie – He always touches me with how hard he works. He didn’t sleep for 72 straight once while producing his album. Sometimes I have to tell him to relax. I mean Leehom buy a TV please, watch some TV and relax. He’s such a deep character, his outermost layer makes him seem shy, reserved, and a music nerd, but once you get to know him better he is so hyper. Yet if you get past that level you see that he’s incredibly lonely, I remember we watched a movie about a man who had nothing but music and Leehom was moved to tears. Leehom felt the same way. I think he sacrifices too much for music, all the times he has to miss his families special events I always see the pain in his eyes. But hey Leehom you gotta work on those jokes, haha, just kidding.

FanFan: He is willing to try new things; I remember when he first played basketball. He was embarrassed because he didn’t play well, unlike Blackie, Jason, and Will who were all basketball fanatics. “How can you miss the hoop?” Jason and Wilber used to make fun of him, then we had a game of baseball, and Jason and Wilber stopped making fun of him. “How can you not hit the baseball?”

I remember Hei Ren wanted to play a prank on Leehom. We had just watched the Ring a few days back and that night Hei Ren and Leehom were going out and I hid in the back of the car. You know what's next. I have long black hair, and Hei Ren and I were like "Hmmm I've never seen Leehom lose his composure or scream out loud, I wonder what would happen if we scared him."

So we did. While Hei Ren was driving I "crawled" out from behind the backseat and had the whole "ring' thing going on. We felt bad though, because it almost gave Leehom a heart attack. But surprisingly even though he said #$@#! He said it really softly under his breath. Leehom's always screams and shouts on stage but in person he's so poised and never gets angry. We expected him to say profanities to us, but he didn't. That's why Leehom is such a unique character.

Jason – He’s the most talented Asian artist I know. He’s extremely mellow; it’s scary how I’ve never seen him get mad. Sometimes I think his enormous amount of sportsmanship is unhealthy, I mean where does all that anger go? He’s one great bro, we’ll be behind him through thick and thin. Yeah, homboys man.

Coco Lee: Leehom’s like a teddy bear. He is always so bubbly and happy and just brightens up the atmosphere. He has great talent and it’s an honor to be his friend.

I've known him since he first debuted. I remember the good old times when we would go sing Karoake with the other ABC kids, Machi's Jeff Huang. It's a shame that we've all gotten so busy. I would love to be able to spend more time with him again.

Elva Hsiao: Leehom is very interesting. He has split personalities. Haha, he has this very gentlemen-shy-ladies-first side, then he has the crazy, hyper-jumping-around-the-room side, and then the intense-music-is-my-life side. Sometimes I worry that he’s too nice and gets taken advantage of. He rarely says no and isn’t a businessperson so he overworks himself a lot especially in composing for other artists.

But he's such a sweetheart. Many reports were reporting that I rejected his songs 4 times and stuff but the thing was it's the demos weren't right. But he's still so thoughtful. Before I recorded the song "Honey x 3" he called my company, WARNER, and asked what I liked. They told him that I liked Los Angeles's sun and Hawaii's beach. Guess what? That night he went out and brought posters of The Los Angeles Sun and Hawaii beach for my recording the next day to help me relax.

Amei – Leehom’s awesome. He’s serious when it comes to work, but it’s so fun to be around him. His work ethics are incredible; he makes music because he loves music like he loves a child. Music is his life. It’s ironic though because away from music Leehom is such a kid, he’s incredibly cute but also vulnerable because he doesn’t look out for himself and gets taken advantage of easily.

Fish Leong – Sometimes I ask him why he’s so nice. I’m so touched by how much he loves music, he flew all the way from New York to Taiwan to compose my song Silk Road. Yet even though he had jetlag and we recorded into the wee hours he still was able to crack jokes. Too bad I’m not his type of girl…haha just kidding. There is a small problem working with Leehom though. When Leehom talks to me, I am unable to concentrate because he is just too handsome!"

Da S Leehom's a gentleman. I rememeber he came to my house one time with Hei Ren and I was in my pajamas and my hair was all up and weird looking and I felt so embarassed so I went and hid in my room. Leehom was like "Nice antenae you got going up on your head." So I smacked him with a pillow. He's such a caring guy. I can never get over his musicial talents, everytime he performs I feel like I melt.

Kelly I've known Leehom for many years and although I'm from HK and he's from Taiwan we have many projects together. He used to guest for my hong kong concerts. Leehom's matured but he's still the same LEehom. We are both speakers for Mcdonalds and he always asks him to speak in Cantonese. I teach all the "important' words. Haha. BAsically all the bad words so Leehom can know whenever someone decides to talk crap about him in cantonese.

Gigi Lai-- Did you know Leehom gave his first "on-screen" kiss to me? haha I took his on-screen-kissing virginity away. I really enjoyed working with him on Avenging fist, he's such an adorable character. I especially liked how he played a rebelious character because that was hot. haha. I havn't seen him in a long time, but we performed together on stage in HK and I was at his 29th birthday!

Stephanie Sun No one knows that I'm friends with Leehom. Is it because we both are lay's spokespersons? No. haha. Because I think Leehom is cool and Leehom thinks I'm cool. haha. We are just cool like that.

Coolio Yo, Leehom's a cool dawg ya' know? I worked with him in CSF and we used to hang out on set. I felt I talked to much though because I kept on talking about my life and leehom was just like, "that's nice." hahahahaha. But it's fun, he's a cool kid. But damn he gets all the girls when we go out, what's with that? haha. Anyway whenever I go to taiwan I like to pay him a visit, and sometimes it's like 2 am and I'm like "Hey Leehom!" and He's like, "Damn, hi Coolio."

Richie Ren: I've known Leehom for long. He's very busy lately now though and it's sad because we havn't hung out in a long time. But recently he was in HK and in the airport we caught up. We have so much to say to each other.

Tata Young Ah Leehom, my dear Leehom. That boy is adorable. Haha, he's such a quirk and so bubbly to be around. It's funny though because he has this deep voice when he speaks in English to me and I hear his songs and he sings higher than me. He's a very talented person and he always surprises me with his talents. This guy is just endless and I get surprised everytime I find out more about him. Everytime I see him, I'm suprised by a new talent..

AYA I love Leehom. haha. No really I do. He's so nice, so talented, so handsome, he's everything. But I think Leehom already knows how much I adore him. Yeah to my future husband.

Xiao S – Leehom is not only wonderfully awesome too look at, he is so talented. Little secret he gets drunk easily. Once we were at Hotpot and Leehom took not even two sips and he was drunk. It’s so easy to take "advantage" of him when he's drunk because he is so clueless. But that time he got drunk we were like, "what after 2 drinks?" lol he usually gets a bit shy when a girl gets next to him but I sat next to him and I told him I was his finanacial advisor and he believed me. So girls if you want to "chase" Leehom get him drunk first. Just Kidding. It’s hard to imagine since he’s always so clean and prepared in public.

I'm a very straightfoward person and it's so cute when LEehom gets embarrassed. One time in front of all our friends I was like, " Leehom I had a "dream" about you last night and we were kissing...and such." He got really shy, looked away, and said "thank you." It's so funny. He's proper even when he's embarassed.

He impresses me every time he performs; I remember the first time I heard him play the piano I almost fainted. He has such long pretty fingers.

Ah Xin – I just recently got to know him better. Sometimes I wonder why I didn’t get to know him sooner. I’ve talked to him on several occasions at award shows and he was so opening and generous to introduce me to people. I finally got to know him better through a collaboration with Fish, he’s such an awesome man. The ladies may faint when they see him, but he’s more than looks. Sometimes I think people think he’s just a pretty boy, but trust me after making that song with him, he is a musical genius.

Harlem – I’m cool, because I’ve known Leehom for so long. Hah. He’s like my little brother, I knew him since he first started 10 years ago. He hasn’t changed much, the fame hasn’t gotten to him. He’s still the vulnerable 18 year old that gets taken advantaged of. Though he’s smartened up a bit, he’s still too nice in the world of entertainment and media. I remember most clearly the GMA event, Leehom went on stage because the presenter read his name wrong. Leehom though wasn’t bitter, he even defended the presenter. The media though wouldn’t stop asking him questions and rubbing his mistake in his face, and Leehom just allowed them to pick on him, he didn’t want to be mean. I had to step in because it breaks my heart that he’s so vulnerable. However if the tabloids start making stuff up about his music, then Leehom gets angry. Music is his love and if tabloids mess with that it gets on his nerves and no more nice guy.

Vivian Hsu – Leehom is a sweetheart. Every time he comes to Japan I’m always there to help him, I remember I introduced him to a hair stylist that cut his hair really bad, but he didn't get mad at me. haha. I wonder why there hasn’t been a rumor between the two of us? Anyway he’s an awesome person, and I wouldn’t change anything about him.

Shunza – I love this guy. He’s the type that will be there through thick and thin and he’s so unselfish. You know that he would rather sacrifice himself than someone else. I’ve known him ever since he started and he’s still the same old incredibly sweet 18 year old. It’s hilarious hanging out with him though, because he says the cutest things. And his music is oh-so-wonderful and moving. My mom always goes "why can't you bring someone like Leehom home?"

Eason – It’s funny how he’s always at charity shows. I mean the man barely sleeps because he is so busy but he always finds time to do charity and I really respect him for that. I remember last year the Love Hope concert I was wearing a “dirty” shirt and Leehom couldn’t get it. It was hilarious because we are all adults’ right? And Leehom was all confused. But that shows his mind is clean and uncontaminated haha.

Gackt – I first met Leehom in 2002 while filming Moonchild. We had a language barrier but we got to know each other really well, and he’s an awesome person. He’s an awesome singer, and extremely nice, I remember inviting him to by my guest in my concert and he agreed. He’s not afraid to try new things, even if he makes mistakes.

I really admire Leehom’s talents. He’s talented but not conceited; every time I praise him he blushes. He’s a funny guy, though not all his jokes are funny, haha. I remember we went to dinner with Vivian, Ken Chu, and some other friends and Leehom tried to crack some joke in Japanese. It was hilarious, only because it was stupid. Haha.

Vanness Wu – Leehom is perfect. I remember when I first met him I was like he’s a cool guy, then I heard his voice and his productions. It’s so unfair how he has perfect pitch, haha. Hopefully one day my songs can be as good as his, or maybe he can compose a song for me. Haha. I remember I used to envy kids like Leehom when I was younger, it’s sad considering I went to UCI and Leehom was like perfection. But he’s not condescending at all, and that’s what I love about him.

He's my homboy and is the bomb. It was ultra cool being in his ai cou video. Even though we shot for hours straight and Leehom was the director he still was all kidding around and stuff.


Jolin Tsai – He’s like my big brother. He has such great patience, I remember when he was composing my "Du Zhan Shen Hua" song he was so into the music. And he didn’t sleep for 2 days while he produced my latest album. Haha, he didn’t even lose his patience when he was teaching me the piano, even though I was doing everything wrong. It touches me how he is willing to travel and ride the plane for like 20 hours just for me. He’s really caring, I remember he called me after composing the song after he arrived New York to give me suggestions for the music video. No actually I think I called him. haha.

JJ LIN: I've known Leehom for a while. I used to be afraid to approach him because he's a big star and all. But one of my colleagues told me to approach him and that Leehom was open. I was so surprised that he was so open. I talked to him at an award show and he was very encouraging. I've grown to know him even more. When I was in New York last year, he was also there, since he lives there fro 3-4 months in a year and he showed me around and introduced me to his friends. He's serious when it comes to work, but very easy to get along with, that's what I admire about him. He doesn't get work and play mixed up.

Alan Kuo Leehom has helped me since I first began. I gave him my master tape and asked for some tips. I knew he was busy with his album promotion so I only asked him to critique a few songs. However, I was touched to find that he listened to every song and offered his tips on each one.

Also last year he attended my first concert and flew in all the way from New York to support me. In addition he missed his plane to thailand to support me. I'm honored to have a shi ge and friend like him in the entertainment world.

Alan Luo God Leehom is so weird. But it's ok we can we weird together. He reminds me of pikachu. I think he likes to torture me because whenever I talk to him he likes to throw in some english and I don't understand english. HAha. But he's a very top-notch musician, it's so awesome getting advice from him, he's like a mentor to me. I prank-called him once and I didn't realize he was in New York at the time so it was 2-3 am and he was sleeping. haha but he didn't get mad and he sounded all calm and pretty. DAng I was kind of freakd out that he didn't get mad


好朋友眼中的力宏-作为记者，我已经采访过力宏很多次了，他一直都很友好。他很亲切，面带微笑，即使他跟你不熟，也会在远处跟你挥手。因此几乎所有娱乐圈的人都喜欢他的性格和随和的处世方式。事实上他几乎和每个认识的人都能成为朋友。然而要变得更亲密，成为他相信的真正好友很难。力宏也承认他不会轻易流露感情，除非他完全相信某人，他会很难“接受”亲密的朋友。有时他觉得他的“情绪障碍”是他的一个绊脚石。

力宏说"我有时用愚蠢的方式诚实对待，我不擅言辞，所以某些程度上音乐是我表达的方式，因为它让我尽情表达自己。"令人惊讶的是，魅力四射的王力宏谈话却不圆滑。"我仍跟孩子似的，我会紧张，有时太诚实。我需要学习如何和女孩子交谈。"王力宏大笑，"女孩子说她们喜欢真诚的人，但我觉得自己不该太放开。"事实上力宏不擅甜言蜜语。他的女朋友曾问他会选择音乐还是她，力宏没骗她，说："我爱你，也爱音乐。"力宏这样说并不恰当。但是显然，他爱她，一直为她写歌。

我很好奇他的好朋友知道他的哪些内心想法，所以让我们揭开力宏的一个个秘密吧：

陶喆：对于音乐力宏很专注。只要他开始谈论音乐就不会停止，而且从来不感到厌倦，我自己作为一个音乐人，很难想象他带给我多少启发。我记得我们一齐合作创作的“手牵手”，它是我喜爱的作品之一。我们谱曲，制作，安排，作词只用了一天时间。我们没有睡觉，我很喜欢他的是，我们对于工作都很严肃。他对于他的音乐很严肃也很细心。他一直面带微笑。有趣的是他喜欢讲笑话，但是他们唯一可笑的，就是那都是冷的笑话，不要说那是我说的。哈哈…
注：这里的THEY指“笑话”，我翻译成“他很喜欢讲笑话，好笑的是，尽管笑话有趣，但有点冷。”

潘玮柏：他就是那么个人。一直让我吃惊的是，一个人怎么能在那么多的方面如此的有才能，还表现得这么平常，沉浸在快乐里。你会想到他在音乐上做了大量的工作，他也是个几乎完美的人，但实际上他在现实生活中很随意。力宏家里很空，只有的床，一些设备，一些音乐设备，其他什么都没有，当我们去他那儿，甚至没有椅子可以让我们坐。哈哈…

黑人-他一直触动我的是，他工作很努力。曾经为了做他的专辑连续72小时没有睡觉。我必须经常提醒他要休息下。我的意思是力宏买个电视，看些电视节目，放松一下。他是个难懂人的人，他的外表让他看起来害羞，保守，一个乐痴，但是当你更加了解他后，他是个相当开朗的人。如果你超过这个限度，你就会发现他难以置信的孤独，我记得我们一起看过一部电影，是讲一个人什么都没有只有音乐的，力宏感动的流下了眼泪。力宏觉得自己有些地方是一样的。我想他为音乐奉献了太多了，每一次他错过家里的重大事件时我都看见他眼中的伤痛。但当力宏开玩笑时哈哈…就像个孩子。

范范：他想尝试新事物;我记得他第一次打篮球。他很尴尬因为他打得不是很好，他不像黑人，Jason和Will他们是个篮球迷。“你怎么能投不进？”Jason和玮柏常开他玩笑，现在我们一起打篮球赛时，他们已经不开他玩笑了。“你怎么投进去的？”

我记得黑人想跟力宏开个玩笑。我们刚看完午夜凶铃那些天的一个晚上，黑人和力宏出门，我藏进黑色的车子。你们都知道接下来的事情了。我有一头黑色长发，黑人和我希望“恩我们从来没有见过力宏情绪失控大声尖叫，我希望我们可以让他害怕的。”

所以我们这样做了。当时黑人开车我蜷缩在后坐，然后整部“午夜凶铃”上演了。我们觉得事情不妙，因为这把力宏吓坏了。但是很意外他说#$@#!他说话很温和心平气和的。舞台上的力宏尖叫呼喊，但是私底下他很平和从不生气。我们希望力宏可以骂我们几句，但是他没有。那就是为什么，力宏会是个很独特的人。

Jason-他是我所知亚洲最有才艺的人。他是个十分沉稳的人；让人吃惊的是我从没见过他发疯。我觉得他的那么多运动细胞是不正常的，我的意思是，他的愤怒跑哪里去了？他是个伟大的人，我们将不畏艰险一直跟随他。吔，做力宏的朋友。

李玟：力宏就像一只泰迪熊。他始终很活跃快乐，使周围的气氛好起来。他很有才华，做他的朋友是种荣耀。

我认识他是从他第一次登台开始的。我记得以前我们和另一个ABC的小孩——麻吉的Jeff Huang一起唱“可否”的美好时光。很遗憾我们都很忙。我真希望能够有更多的时间和他相处。

萧亚轩：力宏是个很有意思的人。他有双重性格。哈哈，他有他害羞的女士优先的绅士风度，他也有疯狂的满屋乱窜的方面。有时我很困扰，他太完美有很多的优点。他很少说不，不注重金钱，所以他全身心投入工作，特别是作曲和其他一些文艺工作。

他是个很贴心的人。很多报道都说过的我四次拒绝他写的歌，但是那是小样不好。他还是有很多想法。在我录"Honey x 3"那首歌之前，他打电话到我公司，问我喜欢什么。他们告诉他，我喜欢洛杉矶阳光，夏威夷的海滩。你们猜发生了什么？当晚他就出门了，第二天他为我的专辑带来了洛杉矶阳光和夏威夷的海滩海报让我放松。

阿妹-力宏是个让人敬畏的人。他工作时很严肃，但是快乐一直围绕在他身边。他的工作要求难以置信；他做音乐因为他爱音乐就像爱他的孩子。音乐是他的生命。讽刺的是离开音乐的他就像个孩子，他可爱至极也容易受伤，因为他不会照顾自己，容易受左右。

梁静茹-我曾经问过他为什么他那么完美。我感受得到他有多爱音乐，从纽约到台湾他穿越万里为了创作我的歌“丝路”。即使他有时差，在我们录音很短时间里他还能搞笑。可惜的是，我不是他喜欢的那类女孩…哈哈只是个玩笑。跟力宏一起工作有个小问题。当力宏跟我说话时，我不能集中注意力，因为他实在太帅了。

大S-力宏是个绅士。我记得有次他和黑人来我家时，我穿着睡衣，我的头发都拢在上面，看起来很怪，我觉得很窘，所以我跑到自己的房间藏起来。力宏说“你把漂亮的天线放在头上啦。”所以我用枕头打他。他很有同情心。我永远不能超越他的音乐才华，每次他表演我自己都感同身受。

陈慧琳-我多年前就认识力宏了，我是香港人，他来自台湾，我们一起表演过很多次。他曾是我香港演唱会的嘉宾。力宏已经是个成熟的男人，但他还是从前的力宏。我们一起给麦当劳代言他学说广东话。我教给他所有的关键词。哈哈，基本上是些坏字眼，所以有人用广东话讲他的闲话，力宏随时都会知道的。

梁咏淇-你知道力宏把他的荧幕初吻给我了吗？哈哈，我抢走了他的荧幕初吻。我真的很享受跟他一起拍摄“拳神”，他是个讨人喜欢的演员。我特别喜欢他演的有反抗精神的角色，因为很精彩。哈哈。我已经很久没有见过他了，但是我们将在香港的舞台上一起表演，在他29岁的生日那天。

孙燕姿-没人知道我和力宏是朋友。因为我们都是乐事的代言人？不，哈哈。因为我觉得力宏很帅，力宏也觉得我很帅哈哈。我们就是那么帅。

知道力宏的狗Coolio Yo吗？我和他一起在CSF工作，我们经常同乘电梯。我觉得我讲了太多的话了，因为我一直在讲自己的生活，而力宏只是说“那不错”，哈哈哈…那很有趣，他是个酷小孩。但是当我们一同出去时他带走了所有的女孩，为什么呢？哈哈。每次我去台湾我都会去拜访他，有时下午两点左右，我会说“嗨力宏！”而他会说，“恩嗨Coolio。”

任贤齐：我认识力宏很久了。最近他很忙，很糟糕因为我们失去联络很长时间了。但是现在他在香港，我们在机场碰过面。我们有太多的话要对彼此说。

Tata Young：啊力宏我亲爱的力宏。是个可爱的男孩。哈哈，他有点怪，会感染周围的人。当他用那种低沉的嗓音跟我说英语时很有趣，我听他的歌，他唱的音比我要高。他是个很有才华的人，我一直惊讶于他的才华。他是个每时每刻都能给我带来惊喜的人。我知道了更多关于他的事。每次看见他，我都因为他新的才能感到惊喜。

啊呀我爱力宏。哈哈。不是真的。他人太好了，太有才华了，太帅了，他所有方面都好。我知道力宏了解我有多崇拜他。就像崇拜我未来的丈夫。

小S-力宏不只外表看着帅还很有才华。有个小秘密，他很容易醉。有次我们在Hotpot，力宏就喝两口就醉了。当他喝醉时，便容易“控制”他，因为他太笨了。当他喝醉时，我们就想“两杯后会是什么样子呢？”当有女孩坐他身边时他会有点害羞，但是我坐在他身边时，我对他说我是他经济顾问，我竟然相信了我。所以女生们如果想“追”力宏，要先让他喝醉。这就是个笑话。难以想象这世上还有这么单纯的人。

我是个很直率的人，当力宏局促不安时很可爱。一次我在我们所有朋友面前说，“力宏昨天晚上我做了个关于你的梦。我们在亲吻…等等。”他真的很害羞，眼睛看一边，说“谢谢你。”这太有趣了。即使他困窘时，也很有礼貌。

他的每次演出都让我感动；我记得第一次听他弹钢琴，我几乎昏倒。他的手指那么长那么漂亮。

阿信-我最近才刚了解他一些。有时我不知道为什么我们不能早点认识。我在多次颁奖礼上和他交谈，他很开朗大方，把我介绍给大家。我跟他进一步认识是和梁静茹的合作，他如此的杰出。女人见了他会昏倒，但他不仅只有英俊的外表。有时我认为大家觉得他只是帅气，但是相信我，和他一起做完那首歌后，我认为他是音乐才子。

哈林-我荣幸，因为认识力宏好长时间了。哈，他象我的小弟弟，10年前他出道时我认识了他。他没有什么改变，名气没有让他改变。年仅18岁的他，是个可塑之材。尽管他很帅，但是对娱乐圈同仁和媒体都很和善。我清楚地记得金曲奖，力宏因听错名字上台。力宏不仅没有难看，甚至还保护了得奖者。尽管媒体不停地提问揪着他的错误不放，力宏任凭他们的挑剔，不跟他们计较。我必须插手因为他太容易受攻击，这令我伤心。但是，小报开始对他的音乐进行捏造，力宏很生气。音乐是他的至爱，如果小报对他音乐乱来，将触动他的神经，他是不会继续沉默的。

徐若萱-力宏是个可爱的人。每次他来日本，我都去帮他，我记得介绍给他的发型师把他的头发剪坏了，但是他一点也没有生我的气。哈哈。我想知道为什么我们之间没有绯闻？总之他是一个不错的人，我对他不会有任何的改变。

顺子 - 我爱这个人。他是那种结实又瘦，不自私的类型。你知道他宁可牺牲自己也不愿牺牲别人的人。他18岁刚出道的时候，我就认识他。和他一起玩很热闹，因为他会说很多有趣得事。他的音乐很棒很打动人。我妈妈总说“为什么不带象力宏这样的人回家？”

陈奕迅-很奇怪，他总是在慈善秀。我想他几乎不睡觉，因为他很忙，但是他总是会挤出时间做慈善，我对他的这种做法真的很敬佩。我记得去年爱的希望演唱会，我穿了一件很“脏”衣服，但是力宏没有。因为我们都是成年人所以会热闹不是吗？而力宏很烦恼。那说明他思想，不被污染，哈哈。

Gackt - 我在2002年影片月光游侠第一次见他。我们有语言障碍，但是我们彼此了解，他是个杰出的人。他是个优秀的歌手，十分和善，我记得邀请他来我的演唱会，他答应了。尽管出错，他也不怕尝试新事物。

我真的很欣赏力宏的才华。他富有才华但不自以为是，每次我称赞他，他都会脸红。他很有趣，但他的笑话却不那么有趣，哈哈。我记得我们和徐若萱、朱孝天以及其他朋友一起吃饭，力宏用日语讲笑话。就因为笑话很冷所以很好笑，哈哈。

吴建豪 - 力宏很完美。我记得第一次见他的时候，他很酷。后来我听见他的声音和作品。觉得他那么完美，这不公平，哈哈。希望有一天我的歌和他的一样好，或许他能为我写歌。哈哈。我记得自己小的时候，常嫉妒象力宏这样的人。遗憾的是我去了UCI，可力宏是那么完美，他并不在意，那就是我喜欢力宏的地方。

他是我的哥们，让人兴奋。能出现在他的爱错MV中实在太棒了。尽管我们连续拍摄多个小时，作为导演的力宏仍然和大家开玩笑。

蔡依林-他像我的大哥哥。他特别耐心，记得他写《独占神话》非常投入其中。他制作我的最新专辑，两天没有睡觉。哈哈，他甚至很有耐心教我钢琴，尽管我总弹错。他为我心甘情愿坐飞机20小时，让我很感动。他很细心，我记得他回到纽约后打电话给我音乐录音带的建议。我没有打电话给他，哈哈.

林俊杰：我认识他有些时间。过去我常害怕接近他，因为他是巨星。但是我的一个同事告诉我去接近他，因为力宏很开朗。我惊讶他的开朗。我在一次颁奖和他聊天，他鼓励我。我渐渐了解他。去年我在纽约，他也在那，他一年住那里3到4个月，他带我到处走，带我认识他的朋友。工作起来，他很认真，也很容易相处，这就是我钦佩他的地方。他不会将工作和玩混为一谈。

柯有伦：从我刚出道，力宏就一直帮我。我给他自己的母带，问一些技巧。我知道他在忙专辑宣传，所以我只想让他给我的歌一些批评。但是，他很仔细地听每一首歌，并给我提示，让我很感动。

去年他也参加了我的第一场演唱会，从纽约一路支持我。另外，为支持我，他错过去泰国的飞机。在娱乐圈，有象他这样的师哥和朋友是我的荣幸。

罗志祥：力宏非常不可思议。但是不可思议的我们竟能走在一起那就太好了。他让我想到皮卡丘。我想他喜欢折磨我，因为每次我和他讲话，他都喜欢用英语来折磨我，我不懂英语。哈哈，另外，他是顶尖的音乐人，从他那得到建议很可怕，对我来说，他象老师。我曾搞恶作剧打电话给他，我不知道他在纽约，所以凌晨2-3点给他电话，他正睡觉，哈哈。但是他没有发疯，声音平静优雅。我奇怪他竟没有发疯。

最近變得不常來MSN了

雖然很喜歡這兒

可每次開都很麻煩

比QQ還要麻煩...有些不耐煩

所以即使不喜歡Q－Zone，最近也常去

常常寫日記，一天都會好幾篇……

有時甚至這兒的都是從那複製來的...抱歉！

 

最近話費花了不少

一周不到150塊就沒了

心疼死了

這都够買一張專輯了啊～～自做自受···慾哭無淚

明天就去匯款買《蓋世英雄演唱會DVD》改版的了～開心！

 

 

再想，就是豬頭，烏龜王八蛋！

加油·加油··加油···～～！

到底又怎麽了啊?
都快一點了，還沒睡覺
好久沒這樣了···

看到他在綫
開始是緊張...後來就難受起來
緊張，很想很想跟他說話，問問他最近怎樣，學習…生活…
難受，不敢跟他聊天，害怕…害怕他嫌煩，害怕他……好多好多顧慮

原本隱身，後來改在綫
希望有奇迹，希望他能主動找我···
結果奇迹還是沒有出現，沒一會他就下了
懷疑是隱身了
後來也證實了，真的只是隱身...
開始慶幸之前沒有找他！！！
可又難過·他爲什麽要躲著我??!!!
爲什麽…爲什麽…爲什麽啊……
我就這麽令人厭煩嗎?!哭`~~~~~
就算我怎樣，也只是希望大家能維持朋友的關係好不好，不至于這樣對我吧！氣死暸···

看到他的Q空間更新了
就去看了看
感慨…每個人都不象大家生活中的看到的那樣，都還有不為人知的一面
看不出那些文字是他寫的
日記很憂鬱，很傷感…感覺他不快樂，看著很難過.

他和她分手后的兩年里
他變了很多很多……頽廢，墮落都有！
愛情的殺傷力有多大?
她肯定把他給殺了.
變壞·變壞··變壞···

今年复讀，希望他能順利讀完，考個還好的大學！
改造…改造…改造……
希望快樂，健康！

希望我們還能是朋友

希望每個人都健康快樂！

今天又有家人讓選擇“希望力宏……”
爲愛情放弃音樂OR爲音樂放弃愛情
我都不要，不選啊...
無論失去哪個都不會幸福的
我不要！

雖然自己一直覺得愛情不重要
可還是不希望力宏……
他幸福快樂就是我的幸福快樂！

希望身邊的每個人都健康，快樂
健康真的很重要
有時健健康康就是一種幸福，珍惜！

女生不要减肥啦，男生不要抽烟喝酒了

一個多月的時間

突然發現現在的生活挺有意義！

 

一直都不喜歡這樣

以前，現在都不喜歡！

雖然現在還是不喜歡...

不過覺得挺有意義的

已經不再那麽厭惡了···

慢慢的，將來可能還會接受吧！

算了，還是不說太遙遠的……

 

總之，發覺生活的意義是件好事，恭喜下吧！^^

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男人=吃飯+睡覺+掙錢
豬=吃飯+ 睡覺
男人=豬+掙錢
豬=男人-掙錢
所以男人不掙錢等于豬。

女人=吃飯+睡覺+花錢。
豬=吃飯+睡覺。代入上式得：
女人=豬+花錢。移項得：
女人-花錢=豬。
結論：女人不花錢都是豬。

綜上：
男人爲了讓女人不變成豬而掙錢！
女人爲了讓男人不變成豬而花錢！
     
男人+女人=兩頭豬＋

单身，有时不一定是贵族。
单身也许会比较自由，但自由也有一个同义词，叫作寂寞。
因为人不是什麽时候都喜欢一个人独处的；有时好东西需要跟人分享，有时候难过需要人安慰。
单身贵族产生的原因，是因为经济上的独立、人格上的独立以及感情上的独立。
独立是什麽？
独立是需要而不依赖，一个独立的人需要异性，而不依赖异性。
　　
做情人之前，她应该先是朋友。
她成为你的朋友之後，出现在你的生活里，才有可能认识你、了解你、知道你的长处而对你产生好感，进一步发展感情，变成情人、对象。
世界上的颜色并非只有白色和黑色，黑与白之间还有很漫长的灰色地带。
只要多相处，便能发现对方的优点、产生好感，这才是发展感情的自然过程。
『一见锺情』以及『从一而终』的感情是不切实际的，我们需要的不是这种不切实际而虚幻的感情。
有人形容跟异姓 交往，就好像在海边捡石头，大家都会捡喜欢的那一颗。
一旦捡到一颗你最喜欢的石头，便把它带回家去，好好对待它，因为那是你唯一的石头。
而且要记住，从此後不要再到海边去。
永远相信，我已经找到最大、最美、最适合我的那一颗。


跟异姓 交往最重要的不是他有多好，而是他对你有多好。
一个人如果条件很好，有一百分，可是这一百分之中，他只给你三四十分，或一二十分；
相反地，另一个人也许只有七八十分，可是他却是全心全意的对待你，那你应该选择那一个？
其实，每一个人的条件都是一样的。
不管你有多好，都还有人比你更好。
你虽然做不到一个『最好的人』，可是你却做得到一个『对对方最好的人』。
每一个男孩子都可以说：『虽然我不是世界上最好的男人，但我是世界上对你最好的男人』。
反过来女孩子也是一样，这是每一个人都做得到的。
感情最重要的是在於他对你的好，而不是他自己有多好。
但是如果有一个人本身已经很好了，对你又是真心真意，真心爱你，那麽你真的可以把一生托付给他。
现在女性考虑婚姻的唯一条件，应该就是你爱不爱他，他爱不爱你，是不是真心真意对你，跟他在一起会不会有压力，会不会快乐，而非他有什麽！


人间的真爱是很难得的。
在人的一生中，很难找到一个你真正爱，真正可以跟他过一辈子的人。
如果你怯於表达，或害怕会有什麽事，错失一辈子可能只有一次的真爱，那就太可惜了，所以一定要采取主动，把心里的话说出来。

如果一个男孩子因为女孩子对他采取主动而看不起她，那麽这个男孩子不是男生，而是畜生。
更何况，幸福比面子重要，如果牺牲一时的面子可以换得一生的幸福，是非常值得的，勇敢把心里的话说出来，不要隐藏自己的真心。


千万别说缘份未到，其实缘份到处都有，但却是稍纵即逝，如果『缘』不及时把握，那就没有『份』了。
大多数的女性对感情是偏重於精神，男性则偏於物质。
男孩子除了对女孩子殷勤体贴外，也要学会对女孩子负责任，要将对天下所有女孩子的殷勤体贴，全部用来对一个女孩子。
另外，刚毅木纳并不能讨女孩欢心，所以要学习对女孩子甜言蜜语，多说好话。


男人，为性而爱；女人，为爱而性。
一个维持起来轻松、愉快的感情容易长久！
一个维持起来艰难而痛苦的感情不易长久，这时後就应该有所选择。
我们都是凡夫俗子，要的是平凡而幸福并且快乐的爱情。
对所有的感情而言，过程远比结果重要。
为什麽？因为所有的感情都是没有结果的。
什麽是结果？结婚吗？
结婚之後就过着幸福快乐的日子吗？
可见我们不以感情的结果来评断它的价值感情，也不以时间的长短来论定它的价值。
对感情而言，凡是发生过的都存在，凡是存在过的都有价值。
世界上的感情每一段、每一分、每一秒都是值得珍惜的。
婚姻是人生里最大的一场赌局。
在这无限长的时间里，我们还要互相呈现最丑陋的一面给对方看。
婚姻和恋爱不同的是：恋爱可以花两个小时打扮自己，精神奕奕的向对方献殷勤、体贴，轻松完成任务。
可是婚姻就无法随时维持高亢的状态。
所以，婚姻是一场大赌注，需有万全的准备、周详的计划、十足的信心，然後再去押它一把，即使是这样都还有可能输掉。
因此如果在赌之前，就知道自己不是心甘情愿、不是很爱他、并不想跟他过一辈子，那麽这一场赌注注定是要输的。
千万不要为了爱情之外的任何一个理由结婚。
感情的可贵不在於可从对方获得什麽，
一方面是一种被依赖、被需要的感觉。
有人依赖我，需要我，我会得到满足。


面对感情，我们所要采取的就是三不政策：
第一是不急：不要急着结婚。结婚虽然是很美好的事，但是不要着急，该是你的就是你的。
第二是不怕：不要害怕付出。彼此必须一辈子努力，才能把感情维持好。你不可能『得到』一个美好的感情，你只能找到一个你心爱的人，来共同经营、造就、完成一段美好的感情。如果你没决心做好男人，那你就得不到好女人。世界上没有一个坏男人会有一个好女人，坏男人只会有可怜的女人；同样的，也没有一个坏女人会有一个好男人。何况感情中还有一个跟我们共同努力、想把它做好的人。这个合夥事业成功的机会是很大的，关键就在於你是否愿意努力、付出而已。
第三是不要放弃。当你受了打击、挫折、伤害，当你感到灰心、失望时，有一个人无条件的、永远站在你这一边，支持你、鼓励你、安慰你，让你重新站起来面对这个世界。这个力量，是再亲的父母不能给我们的，是再要好的朋友也不能给我们的，只有在人生的旅程中所找到的心爱的伴侣，才能够给我们。
其实爱情是人生唯一的、真正珍贵的;也是唯一的、真正值得追求的东西。
只要你有一个心爱的人，你就有了原动力，你就能面对全世界。

爲我哭一次好不好

多麽希望你就在身邊
每當流星匆匆出現
靜靜爲你許下的心願
若能實現我無悔無怨
也許錯過的總是最甜
身邊的一切容易忽略
我的努力你若不能了解
又怎能說我太小心眼
以後這許多年
你不再爲誰掉過泪
是堅强的眼泪比較珍貴
還是再也沒人能讓你心碎
爲我哭一次好不好
才能證明自己曾經很重要
爲我哭一次好不好
放下你的驕傲

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力宏的一首老歌，曾經忽略了它...
一個討厭的人，讓我又重新聆聽……
“也許錯過的總是最甜，身邊的一切容易忽略”
現在深有體會！